For the few majority who have no idea what 'Friend-
zoning' implies, let me paint you a picture:
Boy meets Girl, Boy Likes Girl, Boy Asks Girl Out, Girl
says: "I'm sorry, but we can ONLY be friends". Boy
whines about being 'Friendzoned'.
Typical eh?
Here are 5 reasons why men should suck it up and quit
whining:

1. She Has a Type And You're Not it.
Yes. You may be the most caring person you've ever
known-nice, sweet and gentle(good for you!), however
the fact remains that the heart wants what the heart
wants. I see guys complain about this but have you ever
really stopped to wonder what the girl in question is
interested in.....
2. She can't control Her Feelings.
This goes without saying. Don't trivialize her feelings by
claiming you've been friendzoned. Don't expect her to
hook up with you because you talk to her on Facebook
late at night. Don't expect her to feel the same way you
do just because you've been nice to her. That's
prossstitution and that makes you a douche.
3. She's Been Hurt too.
Only guys sit down and make up a name of something
that is actually...pretty normal. I've been hurt as well,
i've liked people who didn't feel the same way. So?
Would i sit and lick my wounds or move on? The same
applies to the so-called 'Nice Guys' out there. Be a man
about it and move on.
4. The Friendzone is an Excuse.
It's an excuse for when a guy likes a girl but the girl
doesn't like him right back. It's a sense of entitlement.
It's the idea that just because a guy gives a girl his time
or affection, she's in the wrong for not giving him
sexual or romantic favors back. It's a defense
mechanism, a way for the guy to make the girl seem
coldhearted or callous or dumb for simply acting on
her feelings, or rather lack of feelings.
5. Because No Girl Just Wants A 'Nice Guy.'
You need to be more than an innocent little boy. You
need to be a smart, witty, funny, charming and
confident man. Girls don't like 'nice guys' or
'douchebags', they like guys who are real, just like guys
like girls who are real. If you think a girl owes you
something simply because you're a 'nice guy', then you
have a warped sense of entitlement with the females,
man.
The friendzone is the ineffectual tool of an ineffectual
male. Stop using it as an excuse. There's a girl out there
for you but you can't expect it to be me and blame me
when it isn't, Capish?
Source:- WWW.nairaland.com

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